The world is not all sunshine and roses. It can be a mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees if you let it. Unfortunately, you me or nobody can hit as hard as life but that's not whats important if you want to be a winner in life.

Its all about how much you can get hit but keep moving forward, how much you can take, but yet keep moving forward. So if you want to be a huge winner in life double your rate of failure. So if you think you can be ultimately worth x amount, then go out and get it but you must be prepared to take the hits whilst still bouncing back each time.

The difference between achievers and the rest is that achievers and winners and comfortable with failure. They consistently put themselves on the line and always bounce back from their temporary failure. Remember, failure is only an event which means ultimate success is a life long journey.

So remember never blame anybody for your lack of success in life. Cowards do that. They hold themselves powerless because always they blame someone else or some incident for their results in their lives.

Take 100% responsibility. It will be primarily you that will shape your life. If something is holding you back, either forgive that person or get counselling to get the situation resolved. You can't move forward if you are blaming somebody else for your life. Remember, when you forgive them, you no longer can blame them so from then on you can move on with responsibility.

Remember, it will be primarily you that will shape your life. Own that, own your life. Do what you want to do. Find a mentor that will support your purpose and your spirit will be free